Normally, most newly married couples plan to have their first child after they have settled in a comfortable home, and are financially well off. This usually takes 3-5 years, but the period could be less for those who marry late. It is generally believed that the best time for women to bear children is below thirty five years of age.

Yet, the tragedy really unfolds when couples who decide to embark on parenthood fail to make a success of it. This is termed as "Infertility." Primarily, infertility refers to the biological inability of a person to contribute to conception, including a woman's inability to carry a pregnancy through its full course. Under normal circumstances, women conceive within a year of regular and unprotected sexual activity.

This can be the beginning of a very turbulent period in the life of a couple. Outwardly, neither of the partners display any physical, physiological or medical reasons to prevent a pregnancy. Moreover, they find it difficult to talk about it. In a survey conducted on infertility by the pharmaceutical company, Merck, 61% of the respondents hid their problems from family and friends. Nearly, half of them did not even discuss it with their mothers.

The hard truth is that sometimes, It is not easy for a woman to conceive, and there is no shame in that. This is a worldwide phenomenon, and in the United States alone, there are 12 million women who have Infertility problems. Yet, it is not unusual for aspiring parents to blame one another over their lifestyles, and lack of success. What must be understood is that about 40% of the issues involved with infertility, are due to the man and another 40 percent, due to the woman. The remaining twenty percent account for complications with both partners.

Ultimately, couples have to go for independent testing. Besides the routine medical procedures for men, the women may be subjected to Hysterosalpingography and Laparoscopy. Both tests are undertaken to check for any blockages in the fallopian tubes and the uterus etc, using dyes and needles.

Sadly, the problem worsens when the results conclude that there is nothing wrong with both partners. Most medical specialists fail to identify the reasons why a pregnancy is not possible. They conveniently term it as "non-specific infertility" with the advice that the couple keep themselves free of stress, and continue trying for a baby.

Some doctors may suggest prescription drugs that stimulate egg production and ovulation. They start with pills and move on to weekly injections. According to Feedback Research Services, a health-care research firm, Americans spent $1.4 billion in the year 2011, on drugs and medical procedures to treat their infertility related symptoms, thereby Increasing their chance of getting pregnant. Yet, results show that unless the root cause of infertility is addressed, the chances of pregnancy will be remote. Also, there will be an increased risk of a miscarriage.

At this stage, if couples attribute this to misfortune and decide to give up, they are hardly to blame. After facing continuous heartburn and spending thousands of dollars they cannot understand why medical science has failed to provide them the right answers. The reason is not hard to guess. Conventional medicine does not have the answers.

Fortunately, all is not lost. Are you aware of the healing powers of natural cures like Holistic and Alternate Medicine? They date back thousands of years, and with continuous refinement their success rate today is remarkable. A Holistic doctor is one who has a medical degree but treats both the body and the mind together. Yet, if conventional medicine ignores treatments that heal, it is only at the behest of the pharmaceutical companies. The "Big Pharma" as they are called, provide exorbitant funding to medical schools, doctors and the teaching faculties. In life, It is not an unusual sight to see money take precedence over health.

There are infertility treatment systems that owe their existence to a carefully crafted combination of powerful ancient Chinese techniques and modern alternate healing methods. Using this systems, thousands of women, across 135 countries, became pregnant naturally, within 8-10 weeks. All gave birth to healthy babies, and the hormonal related disorders were completely eliminated. Besides, there was not a single miscarriage reported.

Lisa Olsen, a popular author and a highly respected expert on Infertility treatments delivered her first child at the age of 43 years. Talking about her 14 years long wait, she says: "A simple holistic system opened the door to my new and much brighter life of motherhood."

This message is for everyone to read.