What are you really visualizing? Are you consistent or do you waver? Are you making the commitment to set aside time to actively visualize goals or are they just fleeting thoughts that are easily dismissed and replaced by reactions to whatever is going on around you? Are your thoughts of calm and peace quickly replaced with thoughts of "oh no, not again?" It is imperative that if you really want change, that you embrace the things you want.
Spend time thinking of them and planning them out in detail.
Really feel what is would be like to have those things you desire.
Put a big smile on our face as you think of them.
Spending a few seconds with your dreams and then dumping them so you can scream at the dog or yell at the kids or pace in front of the mail box won't get you very far in your efforts.
Make the time each day to be with your goals.
Even ten minutes a day will help get you on your way.
Make the commitment to yourself.
Give yourself permission to be selfish and give yourself this time.
The better you feel the better those around you will feel as well.
The better you feel the more productive you will be and the decisions you make will be more sound as well.
Don't deny yourself this.
Make a contract with yourself.
Keep it going, for you are worth it.
Don't ever forget that...
even for a second!