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Anger Management Techniques That Work

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Recognize what escalates you and identify your trigger point:

Sometimes, when we have conflict with others, we start to realize that the other person not what we thought they were. We start to pay attention to the reason we think caused conflict, look back to find the evidence support that reason. We may also change our future interactions with this person. This filter have when interacting with this person can cause poor relationships in the future. The truth is that people do things for many different reasons, many of which we are not aware. When we lost trust in the person, we will not be open to listen to the reasons the person may give us. Our judgments against that person forms, and conflicts will get worse. Identifying the filter by which we see this person can help us recognize out escalation point.

The same rule applies with our work

When we are not totally committed and things get tough, we want to find our way out. We may find ourselves in the same situation with others, and are able to deal with it happily. This is a reflection on you, not the other person, your pay, or the situation. By examining deep inside, we will discover there are some important rules for your life that may have been broken.

Re-evaluate your feelings:

Are your feelings true or a result of your ego? Your true feelings will make you realize that you really want make a change, do something different, or do the same project or job or with someone else. Here, you are allowing your ego to stand in the way of productive relationships.

Sometimes, people will act as though they are helping you, but you feel that they are actually manipulating you. Sometimes, what they say can be easily misinterpreted. You might want to consider that maybe your co-worker or friend truly intended for their message to come across differently, and perhaps you misunderstood. Focus on looking and asking for clarification. Evaluate what others have done for you, what they haven't done, and ask yourself if you are truly understanding their message. If you are, and the message is one that implies manipulation, you need to ask yourself if this is a friend or co-worker you would like to keep interacting with. Sometimes, it is give and take situation, find the meaning in the message, never just assume you already know the answer.

People do things according to their own preference

They don't mean to hurt you. But, if you ask them politely, they don't want to consider your feelings, you might want to just release them from your life and concentrate on finding the kind of friends that better suit you. Surrounding yourself with positive people you have things in common with will help you succeed not only in business, but in friendships as well!
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